I decided to head back to my “ruts” last week to spend some time in places and with people from past lives. Over the years I have been “home” to New England for holidays, summer vacations, college reunions and to see old friends/family- but this year there was no real occasion except a hungering for […]

I wonder why they decided to call it The Bachelor Pad? After all, cast members are split evenly between the sexes- and estrogen and progesterone flow freely through the house. Everyone knows its about ratings- so we are all contributing to it by watching. Of course, as a dating coach, I need to keep abreast […]

We have had celebrity weddings, weddings of major political figures, and weddings of the rich and infamous, and their offspring. Last week, we had a wedding that combined all of these- and added a new element, an interfaith ceremony. Like it or not, there will always be the in-people whose lives are carefully watched and […]

Too often at the end of a “Bachelor” or “Bachelorette” season, I find myself thinking- you picked the wrong guy/girl. When Jason chose Melissa over Mollie, I had the sense he was playing it safe- which can a dangerous thing to do. It didn’t work because even though he liked Melissa- his attraction to Mollie […]