Consum-mate:Help for all your relationships--from self to soulmate
Toni Coleman

Welcome to Consum-mate, the right place for all your relationship needs, from self-help to soulmate.

Relating well to others starts with healthy self-esteem, good self-awareness, and the ability to communicate effectively. These elements are shaped by your familial, friendship, intimate, and work experiences and relationships; the state of your physical, emotional, and mental health; and the impact of the choices you have made and continue to make, (both good and bad).

If you are experiencing problems in any of these areas you may struggle with chronic feelings of unhappiness, be plagued by the feeling that something is not quite right or missing, and/or be viewed negatively by others around you. You will certainly not be relationship ready if your relationship with yourself is not a good one.

Consum-mate can offer you self-help, help with dating and relationships, and help to communicate more effectively and positively with those around you. Please read on to see what we what Consum-mate can do for you. This could be your first step towards a happier and more fulfilling life.

As featured in: The Washington Post, Psychology Today, The New York Times, NPR, Match, TooFab, TMZ, Star and People.

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